Community Update (11/15/25)
Today is the Last Chance to Register for ANV’s Thanksgiving Dinner, Friday November 21
ANV’s popular, traditional Thanksgiving Dinner will be held on Friday, November 21. ANV members, volunteers and supporters are invited to join us for our Thanksgiving celebration dinner on Friday, November 21, at 5:00 pm at St. Andrew’s, 4000 Lorcom Lane. The meal will be catered but we welcome your sharing your favorite appetizer or dessert item. Dinner will be at 5 pm; doors open at 4:00 pm so please join us early to enjoy good cheer and thanksgiving wishes. Please RSVP today by calling the ANV office at 703-509-8057 or email office@ANVarlington.org. Details below.
55+ Program Registration
Explore the Winter 55+ Guide for three months of exciting activities! There are plenty of programs to keep you active and engaged, including art classes, fitness programs, social events and more. Registration begins on Tuesday, November 18 at 12 pm for Arlington County participants. Programs begin in December, but check the 55+ Guide for specific start dates.
Dominion Guild’s Merry Market, November 19
The Dominion Guild’s Annual Fundraiser, The Merry Market, is November 19 at Knights of Columbus, 5115 Little Falls Road, Arlington. Merry Market is a Holiday Bazaar that is a great way to kick off the season. A portion of the proceeds from the sales provide grants to local organizations doing great things in our community, including Arlington Neighborhood Village! For tickets and information, visit www.thedominionguild.org.
ANV Office Closed
The ANV Office will be closed on Thursday and Friday, November 27-28 in observance of Thanksgiving Holiday.
Save the Date, December 19
Our annual Holiday Lunch will be Friday December 19 at noon at St. Andrew’s Church. More details will be available in the December 1 newsletter, but do mark your calendars and plan on joining your friends at this festive event.
Billiards anyone?
Some members have expressed interest in playing billiards as a way to enjoy doing something indoors with friends during the cold winter months. There are billiards tables in Arlington at some restaurants and community centers that we could check out. If interested, contact John Thomas at thomas-johnr@comcast.net.
Welcome
New Members
- Joann Clark
- Elizabeth Egan
- Cindy Lewin & Arthur Fox
- Jean Hurley
- Marilee Muchow
New Volunteers
- Evan Bjorndal
- Isabelle Cozzarelli
- Ruth Garcia-Andrade
- Philippa Main
- Lisa McCormack
- Elizabeth Moore
- Juanita Morales
- Alison Ruotolo
- Jessica Steinberg
Activities
ANV Events are posted on our online calendar at www.ANVarlington.org/events including the Zoom links for virtual events.
Coffee and Conversation on Wednesdays at 10 am
- November 19: Avoiding Loneliness over the Holidays
- November 26: Taxes
- December 3: George Marshall True American Hero
- December 10: World War I Living History
- December 17: Smart Supplement Use for Healthy Aging
Special Events
Weekly Groups
- Tai Chi
- Bocce and Boules
- Happy Hour
- Board Games
- Bowling
Monthly Groups
- Men’s Lunch Bunch
- Ladies Lunch
- Low Vision Group
- Pop Up Picnic (winter hiatus)
- Page Turners (Holiday hiatus)
Educational Activities
Wellness
Also of Interest
ANV Activities
Coffee and Conversation: Wednesdays at 10 am
This ANV Speaker Series is held each Wednesday from 10:00 – 11:00am. Join our weekly conversations via Zoom:
https://us02web.zoom.us/j/88948577106?pwd=eW0rN1RTTU5ITmJ5NnF2QXZINmdUQT09
You also have the option to dial in by phone to participate without video. For that, dial: 929-205-6099. The meeting ID is 889 4857 7106 and the passcode is 872327.
Wednesday, November 19: Avoiding Loneliness over the Holidays: It is common for some older adults to experience loneliness during the holidays. This is especially true for people who have lost loved ones or live far away from friends and family. Join Juan Couto, Clinical Program Manager, Senior Adult Mental Health with Arlington’s Aging and Disability Services, to learn strategies to mitigate loneliness and available local resources in our community (including Senior Adult Mental Health).
Wednesday, November 26: Taxes. The holidays are just around the corner…and so is the 2026 tax season. The Big Beautiful Bill includes many changes that could affect you, including new deductions for older adults, changes to State and Local tax deductions, and new charitable deductions for non-itemizers. Carol Phillips, EA, with Greenfield Tax Strategies, will walk us through what we need to know about these changes so you can be prepared for the upcoming tax season.
Wednesday, December 3: George Marshall True American Hero. Soldier, statesman, and humanitarian, Marshall spearheaded the Allied Victory in World War II, created the Marshall Plan for the recovery of Europe, and won the Nobel Peace Prize in 1953. The George Marshall Foundation is a fully private non-profit, that offers a world-class research library, public programs, educational initiatives, and a host of digital offerings documenting George Marshall’s visionary ideas and achievements. In this presentation, Melissa Davis, the Marshall Foundation’s Director of Library and Archives, will explain how the Foundation is promoting and preserving Marshall’s legacy.
Wednesday, December 10, 2025: World War One Living History Journey of Navel Engineer Michael Bosworth. Mike will highlight his living history journey for the WWI Centennial. He will focus on the U.S. involvement late in the war and the U.S. Marine Corps. 5th Regiment. Mike is a living history volunteer who does historical lectures and reenactments. He founded the very popular Ship’s Company Chanteymen sea & tavern music performing troupe. A naval architect and marine engineer with degrees from the U.S. Naval Academy and MIT, Mike spent his career as a U.S. Navy civil service engineer.
Wednesday, December 17: Smart Supplement Use for Healthy Aging. Many older adults turn to vitamins, minerals, and herbal supplements to support their health—but not all supplements are safe or effective. Kathy Cameron is a retired, Senior Director of Health Promotion at National Council on Aging. Her presentation explores the role of dietary supplements in promoting health and wellness among older adults, including easy-to-understand guidance on questions to ask doctors and pharmacists, choosing common supplements wisely, avoiding harmful interactions, and recognizing when supplements may or may not be needed.
ANV’s YouTube channel
If you miss a Coffee and Conversation speaker, be sure to check out ANV’s YouTube channel where we post some of our Coffee and Conversation speakers and other special events. Sit back and enjoy!
Special Events
THANKSGIVING Celebration
Friday, November 21 at 5:00 – 7:00 pm
Last chance to register for ANV’s annual Thanksgiving holiday on Friday, November 21 at 5:00 pm at St. Andrew’s at 4000 Lorcom Lane. The meal will be catered, a traditional Thanksgiving feast. We welcome your bringing an appetizer or dessert item to share.
Doors will open at 4:00pm and dinner will be at 5:00pm; join us early to enjoy good cheer and thanksgiving wishes.
Please RSVP today by calling the ANV Office at 703-509-8057 or email office@ANVarlington.org to let us know if you plan to attend and if you are bringing a dessert or appetizer. If you need a ride, let the Office know. Our celebration will be held in St Andrews’ Undercroft, which is wheelchair-accessible (ramp from the driveway, and restrooms on the same level).
Dominion Guild’s Merry Market, November 19
Mark your Calendar for The Dominion Guild’s Annual Fundraiser, The Merry Market, November 19 at Knights of Columbus, 5115 Little Falls Road, in Arlington. Merry Market is a Holiday Bazaar that is a great way to kick off the season. A portion of the proceeds from the sales provide grants to local organizations doing great things in our community, including Arlington Neighborhood Village! For tickets and information, visit www.thedominionguild.org
Turkey Trot, November 27
It’s here! Registration for the 20th Annual Arlington Turkey Trot is officially OPEN!
Don’t miss Arlington’s biggest Thanksgiving tradition — thousands of runners, tons of
community spirit, and support for ten great organizations making a difference right here at home. Grab your spot today and be part of the celebration! You don’t have to be a runner to enjoy this event; come out to cheer on others.
Weekly Events
For more information on an event or to request transportation for an activity/event, please email Office@ANVarlington.org or call the ANV Office at 703-509-8057.
Tai Chi: Tuesdays at 9:30am
ANV Tai Chi practice meets outdoors every week, weather permitting. Meet the group in the parking lot at Museum of Contemporary Art (formerly Arlington Arts Center) at 3550 Wilson Blvd. If the forecast is too cold or wet, we will meet indoors. If you are interested in joining this practice (not instruction), please contact Anita Wallgren at awallgren@gmail.com or (202) 674-5553 to get the weekly location email.
Bocce and Boules, Monday November 17
Bocce and boules will be played on Monday, November 17 at 4:00 pm for the last time this 2025 season. In keeping with the third Monday of the month tradition, there will be Bocce-Pizza Happy Hour at Harris Teeter following the games. Whole pizzas are available at Teeter’s for $5, plus there are other hot and cold food items to purchase separately. After November 17, ANV bocce and boules will be on winter hiatus and will return in the Spring. The Bocce group will plan a few indoor winter events over the next few months so keep your eye on the bi-weekly newsletter as events unfold.
ANV Board Games Day: Thursday, December 11, at 2:00pm
Due to the Holiday schedule, Games will be less frequent than usual. Do you like board games? Join ANV members and volunteers for Games Day at Ballston Quarter Food Hall (lower level). Look for players at the tables near the elevators. Play games like Rummikub, Mexican Train Dominoes, Ticket to Ride, Quiddler and more. We play every other Thursday at 2pm. Parking is available in the Ballston Quarter for $1. Contact John Thomas for more information at thomas-johnr@comcast.net. If you don’t use email, please call ANV Office and request a call-back from John.
Bowling: NEW DAY – Friday, December 5 at 3:00pm
Again, due to the holiday schedule, bowling will next get together on December 5 and will start up again on January 2, 2026. ANV will bowl at Bowl America in Falls Church,140 S Maple Ave, every first and third Friday of the month. Free parking. No leagues, just fun and recreation. All levels of skill and experience are welcome. Bowl one, two or as many games as you like for $5.99 per game, or choose the three-game special for a discounted price of $22, including shoe rental. Contact John Thomas at thomas-johnr@comcast.net for more information.
Happy Hour: Thursdays, 5–7pm
Join the ANV Happy Hour Group. A trio of regular Happy Hour volunteers facilitates this popular get-together: Gary Eiserman, Linda Reck, and Roslyn Rubin. They will send the traditional weekly email on Thursday mornings to let participants know the location for that evening’s Happy Hour. For more information and/or to be added to the email distribution, contact Roslyn at roslynva@gmail.com. If you don’t use email, contact ANV Office at 703-509-8057 and request a call back from Roslyn. The Happy Hour group meets at restaurants around Arlington.
Monthly Events
Mens Lunch
The Mens Lunch will take a hiatus in December and invites everyone to join the ANV Holiday Lunch on Friday, December 19 at noon. Details will be available in the December 1 newsletter.
Ladies Lunch
The Ladies Lunch will take a hiatus in December and invites everyone to join the ANV Holiday Lunch on Friday, December 19 at noon. Details will be available in the December 1 newsletter.
Low-vision Group: Monday, November 17 from 1:00 pm – 2:30 pm
ANV Office conference room
Do you experience low vision or want to learn more about it? Please join us in the conference room at the ANV Office, St. Andrew’s Church, 4000 Lorcom Lane (lower level of the church, entrance off of Military Road). Participants are invited to share conversation, exchange experiences and useful tips, discuss helpful resources, recommend presentation/ speaker topics, and brainstorm future field trips. Please bring your ideas, experiences, and thoughts to share with others who experience low vision. If needed, call the ANV Office to request transportation. For location and other information, contact facilitator (and ANV member/volunteer) Susan Wallace at susanbwallace@gmail.com or 703-241-8686.
Page Turners, On Hiatus in November and December
Page Turners will be taking a holiday break. Please plan to join us again in January to share a book that you have read, and you think would be interesting for other people to read. It can be something you are reading now, or a book you enjoyed in the past. Meet up with your fellow bibliophiles, share opinions, and learn about new books to add to your reading list.
Pop Up Picnic in the Park (PPP), Winter Hiatus
Pop Up Picnics will be on hiatus for the winter. Plan to join us again when warm weather returns. PPPs are a chance to enjoy fresh air and light conversation and to discover a different Arlington neighborhood park. For information, contact John Thomas at Thomas-johnr@comcast.net.
Educational Activities
Arlington Public Library Programs
The Library has curated events from the 55+ Program, Encore Learning and elsewhere to make it easy to find something that will pique your interest. There are craft programs, book clubs, and more. It’s worth 5 minutes of your time to click on the calendar of events and see what’s happening at your local branch of the library.
Wellness
Diagnosis of Dementia- Now What?
Free webinar, Thursday, November 20 at 7:00 pm
Join Lindsey Vajpeyi, Director of Early-Stage Programs at Insight Memory Care Center in northern Virginia. Getting a diagnosis of dementia can be quite a shock – or, for some people, a sense of relief. And, if you’re a loved one of someone who has dementia, understanding how to plan ahead while also adjusting to the “new normal” is so important. In this presentation you will:
- Understand the difference between normal aging and dementia
- Learn the most common types of dementia
- Discover practical next steps to take after a diagnosis
Please Register to get the Zoom link for the webinar.
Medicare Open Enrollment October 15 – December 7
Medicare’s Annual Open Enrollment Period (OEP) is the one time each year when Medicare beneficiaries can make changes to the Medicare plan enrollment. The OEP is available between October 15-December 7, with plan changes taking effect January 1.
- Point 1: Plans may change their costs, the drugs they cover, or withdraw out of Medicare entirely each calendar year. When a plan stops covering a drug, it shifts the financial cost to the client, leaving the client responsible for the full cost of the drug, if they remain enrolled in the same plan.
- Point 2: During OEP, using the Medicare Plan Finder, beneficiaries can assess and make changes to their health insurance coverage, to include adding, dropping, or changing their Medicare Advantage or Part D Prescription Drug Plan. They can also assess Medigap policies.
- Point 3: The Virginia Insurance Counseling and Assistance Program (VICAP) can provide you with FREE, unbiased, confidential and personal assistance. You can speak to a trained counselor who will walk you through the steps to maximize your benefits Get in touch with VICAP 1 of 3 ways:
- By calling 703-228-1725
- By sending an email to MedicareHelp@arlingtonva.us
- By visiting https://www.arlingtonva.us/Government/Departments/DHS/Aging-Disability/Programs/VICAP
Having Hope
By Joan Smith
These days I find it impossible to read newspapers or journals without coming across a piece about Hope. Perhaps this is because the uncertainty of our times may tend to shake and challenge our sense of hope. So, I looked at hope from a few different angles in an attempt to comprehend better our times.
Recently a person I so admired died; Jane Goodall left this earth after a lifetime of animal and human activism. In 2021 she wrote a book called The Book of Hope which I eagerly purchased at publication. Turns out, I love this book much more than I thought I would. To me it is a comfort book; I did not learn many new things, but I learned how to approach old things in a different, hopeful way.
After spending many decades in African forests studying chimpanzee behavior, Goodall developed her concept of hope: hope is what enables us to keep going in the face of adversity. It is what we desire to happen, but we need to work hard to make it so. It includes the factors of action and agency, important in generating hope, which differentiate it from wishful thinking, and from optimism.
In her book Ms. Goodall focuses on her four reasons for her having hope: “the amazing human intellect, the resilience of nature, the power of young people, and the indomitable human spirit.” And she is convinced that hope can be cultivated!
Other research has generally proven the positive effects of hopefulness on our physical and mental health. The Brookings Institute published research on Hope and the Life Course (10/14/25), showing the results from a longitudinal study of 25,000 adults over a 14 year period. Those researchers saw hope as the most important positive emotion relevant to long-term outcomes, distinguished by its strong grounding in individual agency, that is, the determination to make things better. Like others, they remind us that hope does have a genetic component and is shaped by environmental factors such as familial and community support. They, too, emphasize that hope can be developed throughout the life course. They suggest that better understanding of the determinants of hope and its drivers can ultimately inform the ability of both individuals and of public policy to improve people’s lives.
Spoiler alert: I confess I did my doctoral dissertation on Hope and the Accuracy of Self-concept in older women. My definition of hope was: a multidimensional dynamic life force characterized by a confident yet uncertain expectation of achieving good, which, to the hoping person, is realistically possible and personally significant (Dufault & Martoccio, 1985). Whew! Despite all the wordiness, we see this coincides with other contemporary understandings of hope; doable but needing action and agency, no promises made.
Last, I note in the Sept-Oct 2025 issue of a publication by the Erickson Senior Living group of retirement communities, that in 2021 with 100 residents, they have piloted a program called “Embrace Well-Being and Flourish”. This program utilized a specialized curriculum designed to equip senior residents with practical tools for enhancing their resilience and managing stress. The tools included taking action, to learn new skills, participate with others to gain mastery of aspects of their lives. This apparently led the participants to enhanced hopefulness as well.
They note “seniors don’t get to be seniors without having learned the value of positivity and resilience…. but it’s always nice to get a refresher on the importance of resilience”
I second that!
Also of Interest
Aging Matters Radio and TV
Aging Matters radio is a weekly podcast, hosted by Cheryl Beversdorf, and features interviews with experts on topics impacting the lives of older adults, their care partners, and families. Every Tuesday at 3 pm, a new Aging Matters broadcast is posted on Apple, Spotify and RedCircle podcast sites. Aging Matters TV Show offers interviews with aging experts, including demonstrations of aging related subjects. Stories of Life programs feature interviews with older adults who have made a difference in their communities.
What to Watch
Here are TV shows or movies recommended by ANV members and volunteers. Enjoy!
The American Revolution by Ken Burns premieres on November 16 (PBS)
Fisk (Netflix)
Great British Baking Show, Season 13 (Netflix)
Please share your recommendations with us for the next issue by sending an email to Office@ANVarlington.org.
Complimentary membership in Arlington’s 55+ Program is available as an ANV membership benefit. If you haven’t yet opted-in and would like to do so, contact our Member Services Director at 703-509-8057. 55+ Program offerings are posted in the quarterly catalogue available online.
ANV Events are posted on our online calendar including the Zoom links for virtual events.
