Community Update (2/1/26)
Calling all Crafters – Monday February 9th from 1:00 – 2:30
ANV members and volunteers are invited to join our own ANV Crafts Group on the second Monday of each month in the ANV Conference room, 4000 Lorcom Lane. Whatever you are working on – needlework, knitting, coloring, mending, etc. – bring what you have and enjoy the company of others. All crafters are welcome – beginners and experienced, alike. Join the conversation and share your projects. Crafting is thirsty work. You are welcome to bring your own coffee, tea, juice or whatever. No need to register, just show up. Contact Mencit Thomas at mencit@comcast.net for more information.
New Billiards Group
ANV is starting a billiards (or “Pool”) group for members and volunteers who want to enjoy an indoor recreational activity that is a lot of fun and easy to learn. Games will be played at the Thomas Jefferson Community Center, 3501 S. 2nd Street, every other Thursday. See details below.
Private Tour of Arlington Historical Museum, Thursday, February 5
Join us for a private tour of the Arlington Historical Museum led by Arlington Historical Society President, Peter Vaselopulos. The museum is housed in the historic Hume School, the oldest surviving school building in Arlington County. See details below.
Lunar New Year Dinner, March 4
We will be returning to Mama Chang’s in Fairfax for a spectacular meal! The menu is a combination of Hunan, Szechuan, and Hubei home-style cooking and will include numerous dishes only prepared by chefs at Mama Chang. The cost is $45.00 (including tax and tip) and we are limited to 40 attendees. See below for details.
Welcome
New Members
- Eileen and Phillip Akers
- Kathryn Derr
- Restituto Gabayan
New Volunteers
- Rishell Chambers
- Jason Kuhn
In Memoriam
Please keep John Faulkner and Vivian Kallen in your thoughts and prayers.
Activities
ANV Events are posted on our online calendar at www.ANVarlington.org/events including the Zoom links for virtual events.
Coffee and Conversation on Wednesdays at 10 am
- February 4: American Eldercare
- February 11: Hearing Loss
- February 18: Virginia Hospice
- February 25: Driver Safety & Mobility as We Age.
Special Events
- Private Tour of the Arlington Historical Museum: February 5 at 10:30 am
- Lunar New Year Dinner
Weekly Groups
- Tai Chi
- Bocce and Boules on winter hiatus
- Happy Hour
- Board Games
- Bowling
- Billiards (new)
Monthly Groups
- Men’s Lunch Bunch
- Ladies Lunch
- Low Vision Group
- Pop Up Picnic (winter hiatus)
- Page Turners
Educational Activities
Wellness
Also of Interest
ANV Activities
Coffee and Conversation: Wednesdays at 10 am
This ANV Speaker Series is held each Wednesday from 10:00 – 11:00am. Join our weekly conversations via Zoom:
https://us02web.zoom.us/j/88948577106?pwd=eW0rN1RTTU5ITmJ5NnF2QXZINmdUQT09
You also have the option to dial in by phone to participate without video. For that, dial: 929-205-6099. The meeting ID is 889 4857 7106 and the passcode is 872327.
Wednesday, February 4: American Eldercare. Twenty percent of Americans who died of COVID in 2020 were older, indigent adults, mostly women, living in nursing facilities – though they make up less than 1% of the population. In her latest book, American Eldercide: How It Happened, How to Prevent It, Margaret Morganroth Gullette explains how an elder-hostile administration and a youth-focused bias in lifesaving care prematurely killed this vulnerable population. She outlines changes in policy and culture to address ageist indifference and lethal ageism. Dr. Gulllette is a Scholar at the Women’s Studies research Center at Brandeis.
Wednesday, February 11: Hearing Loss. Untreated hearing loss is linked to social isolation, depression, loneliness, and cognitive decline. Learn about hearing aids and other strategies for living with hearing loss from Bonnie O’Leary, hearing loss support specialist from the Northern Virginia Resource Center for Deaf and Hard of Hearing Persons. Bonnie will discuss hearing loss in general: hearing evaluations, how to interpret an audiogram, the difference between an audiologist and a hearing instrument specialist, differences between over the counter and prescription hearing aids, and some useful apps.
Wednesday, February 18: Virginia Hospice. For forty years, JSSA Hospice has been providing hospice in Montgomery County Maryland and now is pleased to announce the opening of their Northern Virginia branch. Chelsea Swink, RN, CHPN, Director of Nursing and Clinical Services with JSSA Hospice Northern Virginia will explain the reasons for this service expansion and give an overview of hospice and its history. Volunteering is a powerful way to help neighbors at end of life and Chelsea will also explain JSSA Hospice’s volunteer program and how you can get involved.
Wednesday, February 25: Driver Safety & Mobility as We Age. Are you planning for a driving retirement? It’s not easy to talk about, but as we get older, physical changes can make it harder to get around and do things we want or need to do – like driving, shopping, or doing household chores. Our expert guest speaker, Kurt E. Gray, KEG Consulting Driver Safety Services, encourages a comprehensive approach to addressing these issues that essentially impact independence and quality of life. Join us as we discuss the various challenges that aging drivers face – and the tools and resources to help them drive safer, and longer.
ANV’s YouTube channel
If you miss a Coffee and Conversation speaker, be sure to check out ANV’s YouTube channel where we post some of our Coffee and Conversation speakers and other special events. Sit back and enjoy!
Special Events
Private Tour of the Arlington Historical Museum
Thursday, February 5, 10:30 am to noon
Join us for a private tour of the Arlington Historical Museum led by Arlington Historical Society President, Peter Vaselopulos. The museum is housed in the historic Hume School, the oldest surviving school building in Arlington County. Renovated and reopened in May 2025, the Hume School now serves as a vibrant museum that showcases Arlington’s history, including exhibits on the county’s indigenous peoples, early American settlers, the Civil War, Arlington’s urban development, and its evolving population. Visitors can explore the original school architecture and furnishings and learn about the property’s historical importance. In addition, Peter will provide an overview of the county’s 250th commemoration activities. There is still space available for this tour; please register by emailing Office@ANVarlington.org or calling 703-509-8057.
The museum is located at 1805 South Arlington Ridge Road. Free parking on site. The building is not ADA accessible and there is no elevator to the second floor, but most of the exhibits are on the first floor where access to the building is step free.
Lunar New Year Celebration, Wednesday March 4
Back by popular demand, this year’s celebration will be on Wednesday, March 4 at Mama Chang in Fairfax (3251 Blenheim Blvd., Fairfax). The menu is a combination of Hunan, Szechuan, and Hubei home-style cooking and will include numerous dishes only prepared by chefs at Mama Chang. Due to the type of menu, we cannot accommodate any food allergies or vegetarian diets. 2026 is the Year of the Fire Horse, associated with bold moves, independence, and overcoming challenges with perseverance.
Dinner will start at 5pm so please arrive between 4:30pm and 5:00pm. The cost for dinner is $45 per person, cash only, with tax and tip included, payable upon arrival. Please place your cash in an envelope with your name(s) and the amount on the front of the envelope. Please have the exact amount. No credit cards will be accepted for the dinner payment. A cash bar will be available, and a credit card can be used for bar payment.
RSVP to the Office by email at Office@ANVarlington.org or call 703-509-8057. We are limited to 40 seats, so RSVP early. Likewise, if you are registered, but decide not to attend, please notify the office promptly so people on the wait list can be offered your spot. Registration for this event will close Friday, February 27.
There is ample parking and the restaurant is handicap accessible.
Weekly Events
For more information on an event or to request transportation for an activity/event, please email Office@ANVarlington.org or call the ANV Office at 703-509-8057.
Tai Chi: Tuesdays at 9:30am
ANV Tai Chi practice meets outdoors every week, weather permitting. Meet the group in the parking lot at Museum of Contemporary Art (formerly Arlington Arts Center) at 3550 Wilson Blvd. If the forecast is too cold or wet, we will meet indoors. If you are interested in joining this practice (not instruction), please contact Anita Wallgren at awallgren@gmail.com or (202) 674-5553 to get the weekly location email.
Bocce and Boules, Winter Hiatus
ANV bocce and boules is on winter hiatus and will return in the Spring. The Bocce group will plan a few indoor winter events over the next few months so keep your eye on the bi-weekly newsletter as events unfold.
ANV Board Games Day: Thursday, February 5 and February 19, at 2:00pm
Do you like board games? Join ANV members and volunteers for Games Day at Ballston Quarter Food Hall (lower level). Look for players at the tables near the elevators. Play games like Rummikub, Mexican Train Dominoes, Ticket to Ride, Quiddler and more. We play every other Thursday at 2pm. Parking is available in the Ballston Quarter for $1. Contact John Thomas for more information at thomas-johnr@comcast.net. If you don’t use email, please call ANV Office and request a call-back from John.
Bowling, Mondays, February 2 and February 16. at 4:00pm
ANV will bowl at Bowl America in Falls Church,140 S Maple Ave, every other Monday at 3:00pm. Free parking. No leagues, just fun and recreation. All levels of skill and experience are welcome. Bowl one, two or as many games as you like for $5.99 per game, or choose the three-game special for a discounted price of $22, including shoe rental. Contact John Thomas at thomas-johnr@comcast.net for more information.
Billiards (new), Thursday, February 12 and 26, at 11:00 am
ANV is starting a billiards (or “Pool”) group every other Thursday at Thomas Jefferson Community Center, 3501 S. 2nd Street, for members and volunteers who want to enjoy an indoor recreational activity that is a lot of fun and easy to learn. Billiards is a fantastic social game for seniors because it keeps you moving, improves hand-eye coordination, and requires a good bit of strategy without being physically taxing. Contact John Thomas at thomas-johnr@comcast.net for more information.
Happy Hour: Thursdays, 5–7pm
Join the ANV Happy Hour Group. A trio of regular Happy Hour volunteers facilitates this popular get-together: Gary Eiserman, Linda Reck, and Roslyn Rubin. They will send the traditional weekly email on Thursday mornings to let participants know the location for that evening’s Happy Hour. For more information and/or to be added to the email distribution, contact Roslyn at roslynva@gmail.com. If you don’t use email, contact ANV Office at 703-509-8057 and request a call back from Roslyn. The Happy Hour group meets at restaurants around Arlington.
Monthly Events
Mens Lunch, Friday, February 13, noon
Please join the Men’s Lunch at Lebanese Taverna in Westover located at 5900 Washington Boulevard. Enjoy all of your favorite Lebanese mezzas including hummus, baba ghanoush, kibbeh and grape leaves and entrees such as kabobs, falafel, and shawarma. Free on-street parking is available adjacent to the restaurant and also in the parking area in front of and behind the shops on Washington. Attendees pay for their own meals by separate check, using cash or credit card. Please RSVP to Tim Burns at tfxb23@yahoo.com so we may have an accurate count. If you don’t use email, please call the ANV Office and request a call back from Tim.
Ladies Lunch, Friday February 13, noon
The Ladies Lunch will gather at Sabores located at 2401 Columbia Pike. Sabores is a tapas bar featuring cuisine from Latin America and Spain. Free parking is available in the retail parking garage where Giant is also located – behind the restaurant. Attendees pay for their own meals by separate check, using cash or credit card. Please RSVP to roslynva@gmail.com so we may have an accurate count. If you don’t use email, please call the ANV Office and request a call-back from Roslyn.
Low-vision Group, Monday, February 23 at 1:00pm (different day!)
Due to the President’s Day holiday, the Low Vision group will meet on Monday, February 23. Katherine Novak has agreed to lead the group on the 23rd. She has a wealth of information about technical aids, so bring your questions and your devices.
Do you experience low vision or want to learn more about it? Please join us in the conference room at the ANV Office, St. Andrew’s Church, 4000 Lorcom Lane (lower level of the church, entrance off of Military Road). Participants are invited to share conversation, exchange experiences and useful tips, discuss helpful resources, recommend presentation/ speaker topics, and brainstorm future field trips. Please bring your ideas, experiences, and thoughts to share with others who experience low vision. If needed, call the ANV Office to request transportation. For location and other information, contact facilitator (and ANV member/volunteer) Susan Wallace at susanbwallace@gmail.com or 703-241-8686.
Page Turners, February 26 at 11:00am
Page Turners is back and we hope that you can share all the books you enjoyed during the holiday season. Please join us to share a book that you have read, and you think would be interesting for other people to read. It can be something you are reading now, or a book you enjoyed in the past. Meet up with your fellow bibliophiles, share opinions, and learn about new books to add to your reading list. See the list of books at the last meeting below.
Join the conversation via Zoom:
https://us02web.zoom.us/j/89666785566?pwd=WFFpTlY2SkJMQlJjN0NWNEUraFhEQT09
You also have the option to dial in by phone to participate without video. For that, dial: 301-715-8592. The meeting ID is 896 6678 5566 and the passcode is 007241.
Pop Up Picnic in the Park (PPP), Winter Hiatus
Pop Up Picnics will be on hiatus for the winter. Plan to join us again when warm weather returns. PPPs are a chance to enjoy fresh air and light conversation and to discover a different Arlington neighborhood park. For information, contact John Thomas at Thomas-johnr@comcast.net.
Educational Activities
Arlington Public Library Programs
The Library has curated events from the 55+ Program, Encore Learning and elsewhere to make it easy to find something that will pique your interest. There are craft programs, book clubs, and more. It’s worth 5 minutes of your time to click on the calendar of events and see what’s happening at your local branch of the library.
Wellness
Positive Approach to Care – Normal vs. Not Normal Aging
Tuesday, February 24, 11:00am – 1:00pm
Join RAFT for this interactive webinar, designed for care professionals and family caregivers. Register online
Workshop Objectives:
- Compare and contrast normal aging versus not normal aging related to various cognitive functions
- Describe the five sensory input and processing systems, highlighting the dominant role of vision, and the major differences between protective and discriminating sensation in each.
- Discuss the impact of changing sensory awareness and processing as dementia progresses
An Age is Merely a Number—Or So It Is Said! By Joan Smith
Birthday wishes change so much over the years: in our youth we so desperately want to be older, to be 4, or 18, or 21! But then things change as we mature and realize that time does indeed pass, and it seems to do so more quickly, as we reach 60, 70, 80, 90 and up! So we say, “age is just a number”.
But in reality, to some extent that is true! Much recent research has identified several different facets of aging differently, despite chronological ages. Meeri Kim in the Washington Post (Nov. 29, 2025) cites research on mental activities in four realms of creative pursuits—dance, music, visual arts, and strategy video games—and their relationship to “mental age”. The researchers analyzed imaging data of the brain activity of 1,467 healthy adults from around the world, by using “brain clocks” to estimate the difference between a person’s chronological age and their brain’s biological age. This is a very sophisticated and complex computational method that is too technical to go into here, but the research is touted as using strong, well-validated methods. The brain age gap apparently is used to assess accelerated or delayed brain aging.
Accelerated aging means a person’s brain appears older than their actual age, while delayed means the opposite. Results here indicated that all four creative and challenging pursuits were associated with delayed brain aging! And the more expert the practitioner became, the more delayed was brain aging. However, even participants who learned a creative skill without becoming experts reaped antiaging benefits. Researchers trained 24 people to play “StarCraft II”, a video game requiring strategic thinking and imagination; a control group was trained on a different game with limited improvisation. After 4 weeks, the “StarCraft II” group showed slower brain aging than the other group, although both groups benefited from the exercise.
Interestingly—out of all participants, highly skilled tango dancers seemed to have the most youthful brains, an average of seven years younger than their chronological age!
Good news—even passive activities have protective effects! Taking in a play, art museum or concert offers a buffer for brain aging, and other research suggests these help preserve cognitive function later in life.
Family/hereditary history is often pointed to, but we now know that is but one factor; research points out that even those without a family history of longevity who frequently participated in hobbies such as reading and attending concerts, plays and musicals were able to match the same level of good cognitive functioning as those with familial longevity.
How to benefit? Here are a few tips:
- lean into activities and experiences that keep you fully engaged and deeply focused, where stress and time fade away
- participate in a hobby club or group
- combine creativity with movement (since keeping the heart healthy keeps the brain healthy)
- know that it is never too late!
So, go ahead, join that chorus, pick up the guitar (piano, flute, banjo, ukulele), learn to play cards, and TAKE TANGO LESSONS!!!
Brief addendum from the Independent Living Community Diaries
My new Village of 1,950 residents recently looked at the “numbers”. Here is the breakdown:
Age (65-74): 23 persons; (75-84): 856 persons; (85 and above): 968 persons, including 23 over 100!! This means that roughly 83% have already exceeded the current lifespans for men and women. I guess all that push to walk, join, engage, exercise, socialize pays off. So, New Year’s Resolution #1, I now resolve to join Yoga next week!
Also of Interest
Aging Matters Radio and TV
Aging Matters radio is a weekly podcast, hosted by Cheryl Beversdorf, and features interviews with experts on topics impacting the lives of older adults, their care partners, and families. Every Tuesday at 3 pm, a new Aging Matters broadcast is posted on Apple, Spotify and RedCircle podcast sites. Aging Matters TV Show offers interviews with aging experts, including demonstrations of aging related subjects. Stories of Life programs feature interviews with older adults who have made a difference in their communities.
What to Watch
Here are TV shows or movies recommended by ANV members and volunteers. Enjoy!
Emily in Paris, 5 seasons on Netflix
Industry, 4 seasons on HBO Max
West Wing, 25th Anniversary, on HBO Max, 7 seasons
Please share your recommendations with us for the next issue by sending an email to Office@ANVarlington.org.
Recently Discussed Page Turners Books
Behind Enemy Lines by Marthe Cohn. (Non-Fiction, Memoir)
Before We Were Yours by Lisa Wingate. (Historical Fiction)
Shadow Ticket by Thomas Pynchon. (Fiction, Detective)
Separation of Church and Hate by John Fugelsang. (Non-Fiction)
Grey Wolf by Louise Penny. (Fiction – Detective)
1929 by Andrew Ross Sorkin. (Non-Fiction)
The Heart Goes Last by Margaret Atwood. (Fiction)
Complimentary membership in Arlington’s 55+ Program is available as an ANV membership benefit. If you haven’t yet opted-in and would like to do so, contact our Member Services Director at 703-509-8057. 55+ Program offerings are posted in the quarterly catalogue available online.
